Skinny vs. Fat- How would you compare the two??

Skinny vs. Fat

No one wants to be compared like that, but at the same time everyone is compared like that. That’s the way of life, like cats and dogs its Skinny’s and Fats. I will say that I have been compared to people like that and it ain’t nice. I’m not skinny, but I sure as heck ain’t fat. So how would you compare the two? How fat is to fat and how skinny is to skinny? No one knows if your average. This one is coming from someone who thinks they’re fat, but really am I fat? Are you fat or are you skinny?

This is my defecation of skinny. Skinny: if you can see ribs and bones. And there are people who you CAN see their bones and its not right, that’s skinny. Well, really its called skin an bones down where I live in the South, but its skinny. Where I live, if your “skinny” then you have a disorder, you don’t get fed, or your a slut. That’s the nicest way to put it. Mainly, the girls down here that are skinny try saying that they have a disorder, which some do don’t get me wrong some do, but most are trying to avoid the last one when everyone knows that they are. I only have one friend who’s like that and she has a real disorder and everyone helps her out and knows not to pick on her unless they want a silenced life forever.

Now, on to what people call ‘fat’. In my dictionary, fat isn’t what most think. Fat: if you can’t get out of your bed. That’s what fat is to me. Now, I’m not trying to pick on people who read this but that’s what I think . I’m sorry if it does offend you, I really am. Anyways, when your like that, people don’t really talk to you down here in the South. When they do, its never nice and its like if you can’t say anything nice about someone why say it at all?? But they do it to everyone. Not nice and I have never met someone who is like that but I really wish I could so I could tell them that their is someone who doesn’t care what they look like as long as they’re alive.

On to what teenagers think.. Boy this will be a fun one! We’ve all been there or we’re in those years right now… People change and you gain friends or you lose friends, either way you have friends. What type of friend are you looking for though? A skinny  or a fat  friend? Most popular people in general, want a skinny friend. Not a lot of  popular people have fat friends. Now, what is fat and skinny to a teenager? Well, in reality they’re the same thing! Just the “fat” people have bigger boob sizes then the “skinny” people and so they judge on boob size.

“Fat” teenagers actually have a real waist, real boobs, and a real everything. That is a teenagers def. of a fat person! And it isn’t right because a “skinny”  person doesn’t have a real waist, they’re flat chested or have FAKE boobs, and they don’t have nothing really. And again, I’m sorry if i;m offending some people but you know what who cares?! Its a blog, get over it. All I’m saying on that part… Back to topic. I’ve been judged on how I look because I’m not one of the  “skinny” popular girls who have no waist and basically has nothing to them. No, I’m a popular band geek who is “fat” and proud of it because  they won’t know what to do when they blossom and get to the same size as me. I mean really, who cares if in middle school/ jr.high/ high school if your “skinny” or “fat” it shouldn’t matter one bit. I’m best friends with a girl who has nothing, no waist, flat chested, and no junk in the trunk either and I’m her best friend. People talk and say “Oh she used to be popular till she started hanging out with the fat freak” and that’s when I turn to look at them and say “You know what, I don’t see how i’m fat so shut the *bleep* up!” And they always say the same thing– “Your fat because your boob size is bigger fatty” and thats when I have to turn around and walk off before I kill the beotch.

So when your called fat and don’t like it remember— 1.) they’re jealous, 2.) They’re jealous, and 3.) you thought I was gonna say they’re jealous again didn’t you? (: haha don’t let those other girls get to you because if you do then your putting yourself down and its not right. Always think positive and don’t let them pick on you. Get a little backbone! IF you don’t know that saying, it means stand up for yourself and don’t let them take control over you.

Thanks for reading you guys! I love you all as a friend!

~Kaylea

Gay Marriages

So, I’m going to talk about Gay Marriages. I know, some people don’t want to, but get over it cuz if you don’t want to read then skip this post! I’m sorry if its mean but its the truth. Now, on to what I’m thinking about Gay Marriages.

Sorry if you already know what it is! Just clearing it up for the people who don’t! Gay Marriage: Its when two (2) people of the same gender love each other and want to get married.

Some states… Well a BUNCH of states don’t allow Gay Marriages. My thoughts are, if 2 people love each other enough and are the same gender, then let them get married! It has nothing to do with freaking politics or state money, or state involvement AT ALL. Stupid politicians just don’t want to see Gay Marriages because they want to ruin other people’s happiness. That’s my thoughts.

Okay… it wasn’t all that I was thinking. I’m going to say more because my best guy friend is gay. Yeah, I dated him before he figured out he was gay. The last girl he dated was my best friend. Honestly, if gay marriage was legalized in all the states, I think their would be a little bit more peace. I honestly think that some of the politicians are gay too.

Sorry if that was offensive to anyone but its the truth! Haha I AM known for my honesty!

Anyways, how can they judge who can get married or not? I mean, I’m straight but really, I don’t judge my friends who’re gay, bisexual, or lesbian. The only person who needs to be doing ANY judging is God. If you don’t know him then go buy/pick up a bible, find a ride to church on Wednesday and Sunday, and Listen to the message. Then go read the bible and don’t judge. That’s as nice as I can put it.

Gay Marriage isn’t bad at all. Really, if you love the same gender enough that you want to take the commitment of your life time then go for it. I will agree with you whole-heartily.  There will be more to come later in time, but this is all I’m saying right now.

The Voice is on! I’m happy and watching it. Giants won tonight and I was HAPPY! Talk to my favorites later!

~Kaylea

Boys -_-

Well, today is the day i’m going to talk about….. Get ready for it….. Drum roll please!….. Haha…… Quit the drum roll….. no, seriously quit the drum roll! Today is the day I’m going to talk about boys.  Yeah, not to happy put whatever, its something I think I should talk about. Boys come in all different shapes and sizes and get ANNOYING! Haha, yep that’s why most people date the guys they grow up with during Middle School/Jr. High. If your dating or know someone who is or did date when you were in elementary, then your a goofball! Why would you date that young? Really? Mhm, give me a better reason. ANYWAYS, I have come to understand that people date the people they are LEAST compatible to.  So, here it is straight up form a girl’s point of view!

Boys, i’m going to say it right now. If you cheat on a girl and/or have a record of cheating/being a player then quit dating PERIOD! I mean it! Most girls look for looks and money. To some girls you have to have:

  • Blonde hair
  • green or brown eyes
  • all your teeth and at least a 6 pack
  • good fashion sense(or as good as you can get it)
  • AND money.

That will be the most a girl will look for when a guy is blonde and really, that’s because we think that they create a challenge because they’re smarter.

Now, the guys who a lot of girls go after would be:

  • Brown haired
  • Brown or blue eyes
  • All teeth(of course!) and again at least a 6pack
  • Fashion
  • Money
  • Brains

That is what some girls(well a lot of girls) go after.

Then there are the good/nice girls. They like a certain kind of guy and the guys are nice.

  • Brains
  • Smarts
  • Family
  • PERSONALITY

This is also what I look for in a guy. Personality is the major hit for most girls. Yeah, you can be a jock but it isn’t the same! Jocks seem to get it into their small head that all girls worship that ground they walk on and won’t think otherwise. Book worms seem to be much more nicer and awesomer too. If your a band geek, then try for the person you want! If you don’t try, you won’t get anywhere!

So, all in all I say set your goals high. Meaning that if you aren’t going to try, then no one will waste their time on you. Try, because if you shoot for the moon and miss, you’ll always land among the stars! <3

 

Hope this was helpful somewhat haha! Time to watch the Voice and some reruns of the Big Bang Theory!

~Kaylea

Hey Peoples

Hey everyone!

I’m Kaylea, and I’m a blogging fanatic! This is my first time to use this site though so it’s a little new to me. Anyways, whats up in the world these days? Elections for a new president is coming up quick this year, though Obama IS bringing the troops home from the 10+/- year wars. That’s a good thing if you ask me. Now time for my things that I’m not a fan of AT ALL!

  1. All across the world there are people young AND old who have no money, are starving, can’t work, or have been abandoned by people in general.
  2. Also, animal cruelty is not right either and I hate to see it happen, EX. Whaling Fleets from Japan that the Whale War people are trying to stop for good.
  3. Then poverty which is never good either, the only EX I can think of is the people in Haiti who are still recovering after the Tsunami, Earthquake, and Hurricanes that have gone over them one after the other.  I’ll go through this one a bunch because its a good/sad topic to actually think about because what if this was YOU? How would you help?
  4. This one, this one is my FAVORITE things to talk about because it is an excellent topic to talk about also. Its called Pollution, Global Warming, etc, etc, etc. Call it what you want, it’s still not a good thing period!  This is what I’ll be talking about pretty dang soon so be prepared!!!

All in all, those are the BIG topics I usually talk about. They’re world wide topics that happen everywhere and I will admit they ARE touchy subjects for people and I hate to say it, but it’s the truth. I also like talking about books, food, restaurants, tv shows, clothes, or the latest “IT” couple in Hollywood.

If you have something that you want to talk about personally or you want to be noticed but can’t do it yourself then let me know. If it’s something that’s personal and you want to talk to me about it then email me at kdpuddin98@gmail.com . I’m open to talk to anyone who needs help. If there is something that I didn’t put but should have then tell me, I’ll blog about it. I’m very serious on some things and on others, I joke around. That’s just me. If you want something noticed then inform me and I will put it!

I hope you all enjoy reading/hearing all these things and laugh with me at times too!

Thanks a bunch,

Kaylea